Why does he lecture me

She ordered me not to call her or come to her house. I have a 2-year-old grandson I have helped her care for since he was born. Please give me your opinion and tell me if I owe her an apology.

She may be keeping him around for insurance in case her relationship with Blake falls through again. We live in the same town as my in-laws, and this is their first grandchild. Abby, their behavior toward this child has become possessive and intrusive. My spouse and I have tried to set boundaries, to no avail. We tried explaining that we are new parents in a very difficult time in this world right now, and there is more stress than there would normally be.

Why do guys always have the need to lecture me? Add Opinion. MrOracle 3. I can't say without context if that's a Daddy issue or what it is, but you are picking this type of guy out of a crowd every time. A lot of people do that, and don't realize they are doing it, and so are doomed to repeat the cycle again and again until they finally get a clue.

Usually your environment growing up creates the examples for "normal" relationships for you, meaning, whatever you observed as a kid, no matter how good or bad, becomes "normal" to you, and you tend to seek that out in your own partners. Without a history of relevant info, none of us can tell you what made you attracted to this type of guy, but if you do some thinking about it, you can probably figure it out for yourself.

You can also learn to make a list of the characteristics of the guys that you don't like, and when you meet someone and are starting to get to know them, you force yourself to regularly take a mental step back and really OBSERVE his behavior and attitude and see if he is one of those guys, and if he is, you DUMP HIM and move on, no matter how hot he is or how cool he seems.

Is this still revelant? What do you mean by lecture? What are they lecturing you about? Some of this might just be natural reaction since he's older. Everyone has a tendency to subconsciously feel this sense of superiority over those who are younger.

It's common to think we are wiser than those who are younger than ourselves, even if just by a few years. There is also an element of this ingrained in the male psyche.

It's part of the white night syndrome we have. The reason isn't about us wanting to feel superior to you, its just because we want to help you. If we feel there is something wrong that we can fix, guys can'tr help but want to spring into action and help you with your problems, many times that can mean giving you a lecture about some life lesson that applies to the scenario.

We're not trying to make you feel like a little kid, we're just identifying a problem, and our male instincts kick in to make us solve it. Sign Up Now! Related Questions. Show All. I had sex with this guy and now I feel like crap? Why do I attract weird, creepy guys? Why does he turn red when I talk to him? Friedship or "friendship" with married man?

Sort Girls First Guys First. First off, age and maturity don't correlate very well so throw that out the window. Only you can tell us if you have daddy issues, do you?

Do you know what you want in a guy? Theguyoverthere 1. This isn't just guys, girls do this too. I was with a girl at one point that tried to lecture me about how I should be going back to school. Embarrassed has a father who is expressing his own views on social media.

There is nothing wrong with that! He has the right to express himself however he wants! One consequence of that behavior is that others would be both insulted and embarrassed by it. You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy amydickinson. Box , Freeville, NY You can also follow her on Twitter askingamy or Facebook.

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