It would be in February for about 5 days. When I am at class he will be???. Would that work for you or is there anything that would make it work better? Everyone has a dorm secret or two. You may, of course, be asked to hide a secret for her in the future. I would find out for sure if you are allowed overnight guests. Most universities, if they allow them, limit the amount of time someone can stay in the room.
I would then talk to your roommate. What you have accomplished is to anger your roommate and if your lucky come away with a warning from university housing. If you ask your roommate and she says no then you need to find an alternative for housing your bf. If she says yes then you risk alienating others in your dorm and perhaps get turned in by them. I would make sure your roommates at least know your intentions and that he is there.
It could be very uncomfortable for either party to encounter each other otherwise. All Rights Reserved. Will my roommate minds my bf live in the dorm College Life. This is such a strange question. You have to ask your roommate. The other? Not so much. We still give her grief about it. In a loving way, of course. I think a big issue that the Salon article doesn't bring up is breakups. What happens if you and your boyfriend call things off after a few weeks? Are you stuck with each other?
Imagine the horrible awkwardness of encountering your ex with his new fling. In your room. Perhaps midterm Columbia will allow its students to request new roommates to accommodate for such sticky situations.
If not, let's hope your new beau doesn't dorm with his ex. Is this a good idea? Would you share a dorm room with your boyfriend? Are you still giving any of your pals a hard time about a particularly memorable walk of shame? I would be paying for either with loans because my parents can't help me out.
I thought I might as well put the loans to a nicer place to live in than a dorm, which I don't like the idea of I'm not a social person at all, not into drinking or partying, and I like my privacy. Also, I would not have to move in and out of an apartment when the semesters end, like I would with a dorm.
I also feel like it would bring me more responsibility so I could learn how it is to live on my own. I have money saved up from work and will also be working during college, but no matter where I live, the bulk of it will be paid with loans. Also what happens if you break up with your boyfriend. We will discuss this before, of course. And he already has a car, so we'd probably share it until I could afford my own. Personally for me, 18 year old is too young to be living with a boyfriend.
You are only a student once. Is it because you are going out of state to be with him? Does your school require freshmen to live on campus? I know some colleges it is hard to get into the dorms if you don't start there right off. You obviously know each other pretty well after dating for four years. So that means you have been seeing each other exclusively since you were 14? Maybe it is time for a change? Even though you have known each other all this time, it is totally different from living together.
Maybe you should start out at school and then you can find a friend to room with. The only problem that i have with you living with the bf is the fact that you have already spent so much of your life dating each other.
Give yourself a chance to possibly meet some new people and go to the dorms. Stop judging.
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